While Valentine’s Day dominates the celebration of love, many cultures have created unique holidays that honor different kinds of relationships.
From South Korea’s Black Day for singles to Japan’s White Day for reciprocating gifts, and even friendship-focused Galentine’s Day, these occasions show that life isn’t just about romance, it also includes self-love, companionship, and appreciation for friends.
In South Korea, Black Day (April 14) is for singles who didn’t receive gifts on Valentine’s or White Day. They gather to eat jjajangmyeon (black bean noodles), turning what could be a gloomy day into a fun social event.
Meanwhile, White Day (March 14) in Japan is when men return the favor to women who gave them chocolates, marshmallows, or jewelry on Valentine’s day.
In contrast, China also has Singles’ Day (November 11), which evolved into the world’s largest shopping event, celebrating self-love with indulgent purchases. This transition highlights a growing cultural shift from prioritizing romantic relationships to celebrating personal fulfillment and self-appreciation.
Beyond romance, some holidays focus on friendship. Galentine’s Day (February 13), popularized by Parks and Recreation, celebrates female friendships with brunches and gift exchanges.
Finland’s Friendship Day (ystävänpäivä, February 14) highlights all meaningful relationships, not just couples. Similarly, Palentine’s Day celebrated every 13th of February is an exclusive take on Galentine’s, open to all friendships regardless of gender.
These celebrations redefine how we express love, proving that it exists in many forms. Whether embracing singlehood, honoring friendships, or treating oneself, these unconventional holidays remind us that every kind of love deserves recognition.
– AL
